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In lesson 2 of the Total Transformation Cd's James Lehman says something very interesting. He says, "Parents have an ideal child in mind when they want to have a child." This is so very true. People fantasy about having kids. How fun it will be. They fantasize about taking their child to the park where they will have a good time. Taking their child to the zoo where they will have a good time. Taking a family vacation where everyone has a good time. And all the while their child will be well behaved. This is wishful thinking. But of course why would you want to fantasize that while at the park your child screams at you or that they hit you? Or that on the family vacation your kids fight with each other until you have a spitting headache? But children are not a fantasy. They are a reality. And some kids are more difficult than others. It's not their fault you fantasized that they would be well behaved. You must face reality and deal appropriately with a difficult child. Remember, your child might not be your "dream" child, but they are your child.